The problem with my goals
What’s wrong with my goals ?
In the last few weeks I have been confronted with people who told me I should slow down a little bit. Everything is only turning about achieving my goals. I am using my little free time to educate myself and try figure out how to reach my goals.
That’s not good ! That can’t be healthy, I’m not even going out for some parties anymore, they said.
No clubbing, no partying, no being on every scene, NO I’m not missing out on anything, I just know what I want in life and I’m not going to find it doing any of these things. — Jason
What kind of world do we live in, when a guy who don’t go to get drunk on weekends and start to set priorities for himself, get treated like an insane guy?
Are my goals insane?
No, they aren’t. I can show you a lot of guys on the street with similar plans. Even in my old friend circle, those people who where used to call themself my best friends. They weren’t. They and many others said, after I announced my new plans, this plans are awesome. They wan’t to do the same or something similar. Inclusive reducing to waste time and money in clubs.
So why?
So why do they have now a problem with my buisness?
You know if I say something I mean it.
These things happen. — G-Eazy
I tell you why. They start to realize I meant it by a serious way and things gonna to be happen. And those people who said the same thing like me ? They’re still doing the same as usual things like a year before. Nothing changed, nothing at all. Kinda scary for them, I guess.
Déjà-vu
That reminds me about those first days I quit to smoke. People started to laugh, when they heard about it. “Jason quits to smoke ? Haha how many hours? Good joke bro!”
First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win. — Mahatma Gandhi
Some few people said they will followmy example. Some said they will do it now, some in the near future.
But all of them had one thing in common. They didn’t believe in it, that I will make it. They loved to discuss about it, everything more than that would be to scary, right?
Still same
I’ve got still the same attitude, like those days.
And that’s probably the one thing they didn’t discover, yet.
My attitude: I DON’T GIVE A DAMN FUCK ABOUT THEM! — Jason
Most of them who used to call themself my friends, one or two years ago, aren’t anymore. They still do the same things as usual. They still talk about me behind my back. And I’m ok with it, because I understand them. I have been once one of them. They have no other choice to talk about those with a fascinating life, because theirs aren’t one of those.
My goals, my life, my shit
My goals are part of MY plans. It’s my life. So, I don’t really care about others. It’s my way, people will come to join and will leave it in a certain time, but I will stay on my way. No matter what happens. Take it or leave it.
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Anyway, thank you very much !
Jason
