The 5 Keys to Commitment in Relationships

Christopher D. Connors
Mission.org
6 min readMay 26, 2017

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Finding rhythm in a relationship is the biggest challenge for a couple. It’s easy to fall in love, once you’ve found someone (Prior to the relationship, the finding someone is indeed the hardest part!). It’s easy to say, “I love you,” once you’ve shared some special moments with a boyfriend or girlfriend.

But what about that consistency we all crave, which comes only from true commitment? That’s a lot harder. But absolutely possible. Commitment begins with desire. Each person has to want it and be willing to sacrifice for the other. It takes shifting the way we view ourselves and giving up something, in order to give to someone else. Thing is, it’s not as hard as you might think.

We millennials tend to commit to things a bit less than our parents and older generations. Buying a home, settling down, finding that special someone. We don’t want to feel rushed. To back this up, is some striking research from The Pew Research Center which bears this out:

“The Pew Research Center reports that millennials are significantly less likely to be married than previous generations in their 20s. And a recent Gallup poll found that the percentage of 18 to 29-year-olds who say they are single and…

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