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Your Personality Is Not Fixed — Shape Your Personality For Success

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Don’t stop yourself from reaching your higher potential.

Don’t stay trapped in an identity because a personality quiz told you so.

You can shape your personality to let it help you succeed.

Why I Decided To Change Myself

I became an ambivert.

Google says an ambivert is a person who has a balance of extrovert and introvert features in their personality.

My “Big Five Personality Traits” Results

How Being An Ambivert Will Give You A Slight Edge

Being an ambivert brings the best from both worlds and makes you a better version of yourself.

  • Ambiverts adapt to their environment and are socially flexible
  • Ambiverts know when to talk and when to listen
  • Ambiverts are stable and even-tempered
The Scale of Extroversion

How I Became An Ambivert

At first, it wasn’t easy to change myself.

I’ve set myself free to become a better version of myself.

I can call my extrovert side whenever I want and enjoy being an introvert for the rest of the time when I’m reading, journaling, writing, thinking, meditating, learning, training, etc.

How You Can Become An Ambivert

I’m not denying that your genetics and upbringing determine your personality.

If you want to experience your higher potential, you’ve got to get out of your comfort zone and do the things opposite of your personality.

If you’re an extrovert, force yourself to do activities in isolation which will accelerate your personal growth.

Your personality is not fixed.

You can be who you WANT to be:

  • A great writer
  • A great speaker
  • A great listener
  • A great people’s person
  • A great leader
  • A great [FILL IN THE BLANKS]

Success is a result of daily actions…

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