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Deal Killers in Basic Attraction
… You’re Too Popular On Social Media
We all hear “influencers” promise we’ll be hot if we buy the right product, do some routine or add something to our diet…
But no matter how “hot” someone is, negative qualities can still send others heading for the hills.
That’s because a huge factor in attraction is about what you don’t do.
My Mom once told me the secret to her 50-plus-year marriage to my father: they don’t annoy each other.
“I’m not loving you for what you are,
But for what you’re not,” – Bob Dylan
Of course, positive traits must first catch our attention and draw us in, but negative qualities can derail the whole thing. And they don’t need to. As you’ll see, these are all easy tweaks…
You’re too popular on social media.
Some people are amazing at projecting an image of success and fulfillment on social media. Sometimes they do it so well, that others think they don’t need anyone or anything else so they leave them alone.
