MOTHERHOOD

It’s Time To Make Motherhood a Cooperative Instead of a Competition

Asking for help means you have succeeded as a mother.

Erin Hendriksen
Apr 22 · 4 min read
A group of mothers sitting together in a park. A city skyline and sunset are in the background.
A group of mothers sitting together in a park. A city skyline and sunset are in the background.
Photo by Ben Duchac on Unsplash

That is the kind of support mothers need. Every. Damn. Day.

Asking for help in the best interest of my child does not mean that I failed, it means that I have succeeded as a mother.

A welcome matt saying “Come as you are”.
A welcome matt saying “Come as you are”.
Photo by Jon Tyson on Unsplash

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Erin Hendriksen

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Editor of The Motherload. Top Writer in Parenting. Her BSc. and RRT designations led to a fulfilling NICU career prior to becoming a mother.

The Motherload

From dreaming of children to empty nesting, this is a place for mothers to share the load. Here you will find content that is valuable for mothers of all ages and experience levels. We are setting out to be the motherload of motherhood information.

Erin Hendriksen

Written by

Editor of The Motherload. Top Writer in Parenting. Her BSc. and RRT designations led to a fulfilling NICU career prior to becoming a mother.

The Motherload

From dreaming of children to empty nesting, this is a place for mothers to share the load. Here you will find content that is valuable for mothers of all ages and experience levels. We are setting out to be the motherload of motherhood information.

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