THE NARRATIVE ARC

When My Mother Was Healthy, I Was Worthless To Her

Who’s insignificant now?

Christine Schoenwald
Published in
6 min readJan 18, 2024

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My mother was not always horrible.

Yes, she was narcissistic, misogynistic, and cold, but she wasn’t always mean.

When I look back on her later years — the ones with dementia and full-blown mental illness, I’ll think of her as…

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Christine Schoenwald
The Narrative Arc

Writer for The Los Angeles Times, Salon, Next Avenue, Business Insider, and Your Tango Christineschoenwaldwriter.com