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Dads, Please Volunteer In Your Kids’ Schools

Do it for your kids, but also do it for the other parents

Citizen Reader
The Parenting Portal
5 min readJan 29, 2025

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As the former secretary of our middle school Parent Teacher Organization (PTO), I’d like to speak with you for a moment about volunteering.

And here’s what I have to say: Men? Volunteer at your kids’ schools.

There’s lots of reasons we all need you to do that. For one, there are a lot of benefits to volunteering. For another, you might enjoy seeing your kid in their regular habitat.

But mostly? I’m a mom, and I’m tired of volunteering by myself, and I need you on hand to add “a little something” to the environment.

The little something I learned behind a public library service desk

I don’t have a lot of empirical research to back up my belief that, in any situation, if you have a few men around who are on your side, everything’s going to go a lot more smoothly.

I do have life experience that has made me believe that, though: The nearly ten years I spent working behind a public library service desk.

Librarianship is a career that still skews heavily female, so a lot of the time when I worked at the library, I worked with all women. I like women; this was…

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