The Dark Theory About Attachment That Will Leave You Without Words
(Reading it could hurt your feelings.)
Life is not about having but being.
About being the one who cares when no one cares.
About being the one who persists when everyone gives up.
About being the one who makes the impossible real.
The one who wins when the odds are 1000 to 1 because it tries 999 times, if necessary.
But why don’t we dare to be the best version of ourselves?
I have an obscure theory.
The dark theory of attachment.
“Fearing life is fearing yourself”. — Alan Watts.
We attach the life we have because we don’t want to be pointed at the finger every time we fail.
That’s why you don’t want to get fired.
That’s why you don’t want to get divorced.
That’s why you don’t want to change your friends.
You don’t want anybody to say you are a loser.
Even if that means staying at a job you hate, remaining in a dead relationship, or hanging out with people you haven’t had anything in common since Obama…