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Why Did I Care More About Consent Than She Did?

Was it my responsibility to educate, as well as step in?

Tero Vesalainen |

What do you do when you care more about the idea of an interaction being consensual than the people involved?

I’m trying to be a better ally to women, particularly when it comes to noticing harassment and stepping in to help when I can. But what happens when the…




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