Mere words are just another way to sell your misogynistic ideology !
“Culture does not make people. People make culture. If it is true that the full humanity of women is not our culture, then we can and must make it our culture.”
Telling something and doing the opposite has somehow been the biggest scam of civilization. Calling them your princess, the queen of your world, the majesty of your kingdom doesn't define who you are, it’s whether you treat them the same or not matters! One might brag about so many thing that we, the humans, the homo-sapiens have achieved, but in reality we still lack in the basic human ideology of considering everyone equal. This has been the constant struggle from the start of the civilization to till date, but nothing has change, because this problem is to the grass root level on which this society that we live on has been built. Today’s story is all about the basic fundamental actions that happen without a noise which justifies our title !
When she marries someone, why does the world see her as he husband’s property? Some cultures go even further and treat her has her in-law family’s property. Starting from surname, to what she should do, what she should wear, when to do eat, sleep and even breathe; why? just why her? Does she become a non living object after marriage? If the couple is childless or decide to postpone the child’s birth, first thing the society asks is, is she barren? She gives birth to a girl child, it’s her fault. The child is physically challenged, again her fault. This doesn’t stop here, if he/she grows to be a bad person, even after decades, the child’s mom is only blamed. Something good happens, it comes from man’s sperms and something bad happens, its the womb! What logic is this?
She gets raped; even if she was a kid, the blame is on what she was hearing. She chooses to end the marriage life, again the blame is on her saying she can’t keep her man, even though he cheated on her! She marries early, she doesn’t have a good career, that's why she found her financial support early, also if she works hard to set up her career and marries later/remains unmarried, now she is irresponsible or has some problem, that’s why no one married her. She is single and drives a car, she would drive away all the potential suitors; she speaks her mind, she is bossy; she works hard and she she is rich and independent; she is a prostitute! Her husband cheats then she must have done something which made him cheat her, Her husband beats her, domestic violence; again the reason might have been something that she did; Hitler was far better when he blamed the Jews for everything!
If you think all these are not happening now a days , and the current gen is educated and is aware and civilized; than that’s the biggest lie you have been ever told! I have just mentioned few of the scenarios that are taking place around us, if we go in details, every single man out there including me has to be tortured in hell, for the backstabbing done to women. Just google out the inhuman practices done to them, even today; don’t do if you are faint hearted! If you are not retrospecting whatever false values or ideologies you have been thought or not angry on how you are disrespecting the ones whom you call as queen just for namesake, then I don’t know, how you are calling yourself a human!
“You don’t even have to treat them as queens or princesses, just treat them as they are, your equals !”