The Difference: Living Well vs. Living Great

Maarten van Doorn
The Understanding Project
8 min readMay 10, 2018

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So many writers advertise their blog by promising ‘a better life’.

On my Dutch website, I used to do the same, feeling increasingly uncomfortable about my pledge.

Reading an essay and thinking about it is one thing, but changing your behavior is a whole different ballgame. I found it hard to imagine that my writings had a significant impact on that level.

What, if anything, would people really do differently after reading my stuff?

Moreover, I couldn’t help feeling that professing life-improvement as a rather convenient side-effect of spending time with my essays was unnecessary paternalistic. Most people’s lives — those that read philosophy blogs, anyway — seem just fine.

Nonetheless, when quality of life is the issue at hand, it may be that ‘just fine’ is the wrong point to turn our spades — conceivably, when the topic is of such importance, we shouldn’t settle for anything less than the very best.

For example, in his new book Principles, Ray Dalio insists that having a great life requires “crossing a dangerous jungle” and is not compatible with “staying safe”. Similarly, in Good to Great, Jim Collins argues that few people attain a great life because it’s so easy to settle for a good life.

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Maarten van Doorn
The Understanding Project

Essays about why we believe what we do, how societies come to a public understanding about truth, and how we might do better (crazy times)