How to Make Friends as An Adult

A short handbook from someone who is awful at making friends

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When I originally wrote this, I had no intention of publishing it. Instead, my goal was to structure some of these important ideas as a guide for myself to get better at making friends.

But, thanks to the pandemic, many of us feel our social skills have become rusty, and our bank of…




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Sean Knight

Sean Knight

Data Scientist, Physicist, Stoic, Growth Hacker. I write for myself but share publicly. Here and on

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