Apr 24, 2020
5 min read
I Thought He Was Better Than Me
How perceived differences in status mess with our heads
One reason I was so into Nico (name changed for privacy) was that he happened to be a musician I liked. Before we met, I listened to him on Spotify and saw him perform twice live, in L.A. and Brooklyn.
One day, I was at the boulder gym near my apartment in Berlin, and there he was, sitting on…
