I Thought He Was Better Than Me

How perceived differences in status mess with our heads

One reason I was so into Nico (name changed for privacy) was that he happened to be a musician I liked. Before we met, I listened to him on Spotify and saw him perform twice live, in L.A. and Brooklyn.

One day, I was at the boulder gym near my apartment in Berlin, and there he was, sitting on…



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Sarah Stroh

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