Is He a Player or Just Not That Into You?

And what to do about it

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You admire his art, his professional success, or his beautiful face. You’ve put him on a pedestal despite (or maybe because of) the way he takes forever to answer texts and doesn’t show you out of his apartment in the morning.

You’re holding out hope that at some point, he will come around and meet you where you are: completely…




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