To Beat Your Negative Habits, You Must Master The Psychology Behind Them

Melody Wilding, LMSW
The Post-Grad Survival Guide
4 min readAug 27, 2019

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Photo by Manan Chhabra

It’s 3 p.m., and you’re knee-deep in an afternoon energy slump.

You head towards the office kitchen to grab a glass of water where you’re encountered by a box of treats that seems to be calling your name. “Just one,” you swear. But that’s the third time you’ve given in to your sweet tooth this week.

As a smart, ambitious person, you know bad habits keep you from reaching your goals. You know you’re capable of self-control. Yet, despite your best efforts, you’ve been unable to change.

Whether it’s mid-day snacking, procrastinating, or skipping workouts, feeling powerless in the face of bad habits can really take a toll on your motivation, even your self-esteem.

What if it’s not a lack of willpower that’s to blame? What if the advice you’ve been given about how to “break” a bad habit is actually misguided?

If you’ve been trying different methods over and over again but nothing’s working, it’s time for a new approach that leverages the science of behavior change.

The Psychology of Bad Habits

You can spend hours researching life hacks. However, if you don’t first understand the psychology driving habits, you’ll never see any real success.

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Melody Wilding, LMSW
The Post-Grad Survival Guide

Author of TRUST YOURSELF. Executive coach to Sensitive Strivers. Human behavior professor. Featured in NYT, NBC, CNN. https://melodywilding.com/book