We judge others based on how we judge ourselves
One of the first things people usually ask me is, ‘Gabourey, how are you so confident?” “I hate that. I always wonder if that’s the first thing they ask Rihanna when they meet her. ‘RiRi! How are you so confident?’ Nope. No. No. But me? They ask me with that same incredulous disbelief every single time. “You seem so confident! How is that?” — Gabrourey Sidibe
Gabrourey Sidibe is a Hollywood actress. She was nominated for an Academy Award for Best Actress, a BAFTA, a Screen Actors Guild award and a Golden Globe, for her first ever acting role in the movie, “Precious”. Her role in ‘Precious’ earned her the Independent Spirit Award for Best Female Lead. Quite an impressive achievement.
So why does she get asked why she is so confident?
After all, why shouldn’t she be so confident? She is an award winning actress. Many actors and actresses in Hollywood never get nominated for any of the big awards like the BAFTA, or the Golden Globe. Gabrourey got nominated for her first ever role.
She is asked, because she does not fit the Hollywood stereotypical image of a beautiful woman. She is not slim. You couldn’t even describe her as chubby. She does not have a slender nose. She is not light-skinned. Gabrourey Sidibe is a plus-sized black woman.