Why Losing Is Worth Its Weight in Gold

Russ W
The Post-Grad Survival Guide
13 min readMay 3, 2020

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W e all have at least one in our lives. They aren’t shy. They’re “doin’ it for the ‘gram.” They’re sunset heart hands in Hawaii. They’re stacking racks on the Strip. They’re table dancing at Tao. They’re making it rain in Miami.

They flaunt. They taunt. They stunt. They strut. They pout. They floss. They flex. They brush their shoulders off.

They’re “Winning at Life,” and their egos come with a giant sucking sound.

They have hungry eyes. They’re ravenous for your attention. Your adoration. They want you to want to be them. How could you not? They have everything you could ever want and more.

Well, I’m not buying what they’re Snapping. Somewhere beneath the mascara, botox, filters and Photoshop, there’s just a little too much hot air. A single pin prick, and they might just implode, with a slow whimper and the sound of sweaty rubber folding in upon itself.

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Russ W
The Post-Grad Survival Guide

Addiction therapist with an alphabet soup of degrees. Writer. Creative. Human. Hit me up: russ.w.medium@gmail.com