Your Job Will Never Love You Back

In the time of furloughs and layoffs, this has never been more clear.

Ashley Cleland, M.Ed.
The Post-Grad Survival Guide

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Her resume was impressive. It told the story of increasing sales leads by 4000%, diverse experiences, and leadership roles culminating in a Vice President title.

She had just been laid off.

She was by far the most qualified and impressive (I’ll repeat it — her resume was that good) person I’ve coached.

And yet, she had been laid off anyway.

Like many people in a dark, overwhelming time, I want to help people within my scope of influence. So I started offering free coaching to folks who experienced layoffs or furloughs on job searching, salary negotiation, and feminist leadership.

Most of these sessions have been with entry-level or mid-level people not far from my age and lived experience. So I was taken aback when she requested a session.

What could she possibly learn from me?

Hello, imposter syndrome, my old friend.

Millennials and Gen Z have internalized all kinds of nonsense about our worthiness as adults with value. Homeownership, job progression, marriage, family — all the ‘adulting’ markers are harder, sometimes impossible, to attain in the whirlwind of chaos and…

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Ashley Cleland, M.Ed.
The Post-Grad Survival Guide

Educator & Writer. Passionate about feminist leadership. *Views my own*