You Will Find “the One” When You Stop Looking (& Other BS I Was Told in My 20s)

What people really mean when they say this to you.

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I really hate oft repeated advice. Because if advice is repeated enough, then people think it’s a band-aid they can slap on any situation without analyzing the situation.




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Eileen Wiedbrauk

Eileen Wiedbrauk

Writer. Geek. Coffee addict. Former editor. MFA grad. Odyssey Workshop alum. Library fangirl. Escaped cubicle minion. Home cook. On a mission for better health.

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