SONG REVIEW

How “Don’t Leave Me This Way” Became a Gay Anthem

A dance favourite for all ages

Nichola Scurry
The Riff
Published in
8 min readMay 28, 2024

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Young men in 1980s clothes dancing at a disco.
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When I used to go clubbing with my gay mates, everyone would hit the dancefloor when “Don’t Leave Me This Way” was played.

I think one of the reasons why “Don’t Leave Me This Way” is so universally appealing is that the song’s subject is addressed as “baby.” So male, female, straight, and gay artists could all perform this song without changing its meaning.

Another reason “Don’t Leave Me This Way” is so relatable is because it’s about the yearning and loss of someone with whom you were romantically involved. Who hasn’t experienced that feeling?

“Don’t Leave Me This Way” was written in the mid-70s by American songwriters Kenneth Gamble, Leon Huff, and Cary Gilbert.

The Communards’ Hi-NRG version of “Don’t Leave Me This Way,” the version I’m most familiar with, was the UK’s biggest-selling single in 1986. Up-and-coming Motown artist Thelma Houston released a disco version in 1976, which was also a number-one hit. The original version was recorded in 1975 by Harold Melvin & the Blue Notes with vocals by Teddy Pendergrass.

Original recording of “Don’t Leave Me This Way”

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Nichola Scurry
The Riff

Australian human living in Barcelona, writing mostly about popular culture with a twist of quirky. If you like my writing, I like coffee. ko-fi.com/nicscurry