James on Ashley Madison: A Profile Review

Looking4James asked for some thoughts so here they are

This is the screencap James sent me. He’d also cut an pasted the text. I’d blacked out his photos because he asked, but I would have done it anyway. As always, my recommendation is no headshots on the profile. Body shots are fine, because they leave some doubt as to who you really are. A head shot doesn’t, and trust me, a Private Investigator will be searching for you with a headshot. (Screencap: Author via Looking4James)

Having had some success with reorienting Charles’ profile, I was approached by another gentleman to see if I could look at his profile. I said sure but wondered if I should start monetizing this. My Medium Sherpa Roz Warren suggested $100 a pop, and that’s likely the value, but I’m not sure I’m there…




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Teresa J Conway 🧚🏻‍♀️

Wife, mother, author, and mature adulteress. Wrote How to Cheat — Field Notes from an Adulteress. Email me at teresa@tjconwayauthor.com

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