Are Blowjobs Why Men Cheat?

Does a lack of oral sex push guys to step out?

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No more blowjobs at home.

They beg and plead, but their wives won’t comply.
“No way am I doing that!”

For many men, it’s the reason they cheat. It’s the heart of their most memorable sexual experiences.

Are blowjobs why men cheat?

Guys on r/adultery answered:

• 100% this. It’s not the be-all and end-all, but when it’s offered willingly and passionately and without having to ask, there’s nothing like it. I’ll never forget the first time I was offered one by a former affair partner, the first time we met in person, too. I was not at all expecting it, but it was one of the best experiences I’ve ever had.
• I had precisely zero of these in 28 years of marriage. So, post-marriage was, um, miraculous? And yes, my wife got all the oral she ever wanted.
• The Blow Job is probably the first thing to go in a stale or failing relationship. So, the fact that someone else is willing is a big turn-on for me. The blow job itself is not even a consideration. The reason behind why that person wants to give the blow job is the epitome of sex for me. The reality is it does not need to be a blow job at…