“Look Who I Get to F&^%!” — Eye Candy Affair Partners
The Unexpected Allure in Secret Liaisons
It’s easy to get a little lazy with a longer-term affair partner. The magic might not wear off completely, but it dims, which I think is normal. But then, you catch a glimpse of the person you first fell for and, phew! That’s what I’m talking about! happens to remind you of why you’re together.
That’s what made me smile when I read this post on r/adultery, from a lady who’s clearly still got the hots for her guy —
“It’s rare that I see him dressed to impress…but seeing him in his tailored business fit…good lawd, this man is FIIIINE. I really want to be able to share this picture with all my friends and be like “Look who I get to fuck!” 😂 It’s really a shame not to get to boast 😂😂”
Another then shares a similar story, reflecting the feeling of luck and awe, “Literally every single time I look at her. Definitely punching above my weight.” This idea of being with a lover out of their league came up a few times.
“My AP is literally supermodel gorgeous. She’s also kind, smart, bold, understanding, incredibly sexy… Yeah, I have no idea how I got so lucky.” This sort of thing makes you wonder why we weren’t able to find these people when we were looking for someone to marry.
It wasn’t just the physical appearance, either, “Every moment of every day… Just the smolder in her eyes is enough to shift the blood flow in my body.”
The gut reaction to their AP’s physical attributes gave more than a few butterflies.
One lady had a thing for uniforms, saying, “I love seeing pics of him in both his uniforms (civilian and military)!!!” Clothes do make the man, so I’m not surprised this fascination with them all dressed up and looking FIIIINE was something all the girls pointed out.
Some of the guys were downright grateful and astonished, saying things like, “I’m still baffled…about how I got so damn lucky to find someone so amazing, so gorgeous.” I know this is how my lover feels because I make him say it :-)
“It’s nice to have a small glimpse of the positives of this lifestyle… being proud of who I get to fuck.” The only downside of this joy and excitement of seeing them in all their hotness is that there’s no one to share it with, but at the end of the day, you still get to fuck them, and that’s a big part of why we’re all here.
“It’s exactly me in the current state of mind. And I’m sure AP equally feels the same. We both think we’re lucky.” Well, I know I’m lucky to have my lover. They do so much for me I’m not sure I could repay them. Being there is probably what I’m most grateful for.
Takeaway
Affairs can be wonderful, but never getting to celebrate your lover is hard. Never getting to gloat or brag about them, let alone acknowledge them, is sometimes the hardest part. There’s no outlet for the intense attraction and admiration that flourishes, unlike a regular setup.
You experience a mix of awe, pride, and gratitude. The physical and emotional connections pull you together. The feelings are as real as they are intense, yet, just like everything else, you have to keep it inside.
One of my biggest regrets it not getting to tell anyone other than my lover how excited I am that I get to fuck them.
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