Relationships|Love|Dating

A Secret Sabotage — Making Him Hate Me

Don’t ask for more in the relationship

Kiki Lu Johnson
The Secret Alley
Published in
5 min readMay 27, 2024

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I screwed up.

It wasn’t just a one-time thing, either. I’ve been doing this for a while now, and he’s been silently building resentment. Nobody told me how asking for more was the worst thing I could do. How was I supposed to know it would topple our entire relationship?

Maybe my story will help you, Dear Reader. Stop this harmful habit before it’s too late.

We had just finished another simultaneous orgasm together, and I was feeling fantastic. He had hit every spot just right, his pacing was perfect, and I had zero complaints. Panting, I reveled in the chemical bliss coursing through my body as a result of his sexual mastery.

And then, I said it: “Man, that was amazing. We should do this more often!”

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Did you see the mistake? If not, don’t beat yourself up. I didn’t understand, either. Not for a long, long time.

The result was immediate, though. His face dulled, a silent sigh pushed out of his lungs. The mood was dampened. Not ruined entirely, but something was off. He smiled, still looking satisfied, but with a shadow overhead.

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Kiki Lu Johnson
The Secret Alley

Mother, erotica/romance writer, and gamer. Loves philosophy, psychology, comedy, and of course- sex!