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Are We Addicted to Falling In Love?

Let’s talk about hopes, dreams, and limerence

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I’ve wasted a year of my life on a love addiction. It took much talking, text messages, and a handful of meltdowns before I finally realized that the person I was infatuated with was not feeling the same for me. Maybe he was feeling the same, but wasn’t ready for a relationship. Whatever the case may be, I had to realize that I…




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Phoebe Kirke

Phoebe Kirke

Feminist, activist, sister, but above all, hurt. Writing is my path to living life to the fullest.

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