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Hard Truths About Human Attraction People Don’t Want to Acknowledge

Great in-person meetings don’t equal interpersonal attraction

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We have all experienced interpersonal attraction — the sexual sensation fueled by stimulating discussions, direct glances, sparkling eyes, and excited laughter. But, after swiping through countless profiles on online dating apps that all seemed too




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Phoebe Kirke

Phoebe Kirke

Feminist, activist, sister, but above all, hurt. Writing is my path to living life to the fullest.

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