Highly Underrated Green Flags in Healthy Relationships

It took me years to fully appreciate them.

Phoebe Kirke
The Secret Society

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Photo by Roberto Valdivia on Unsplash

In the grand theater of love, we’re often fixated on spotting the warning signs, the red flags waving ominously in the wind. But what about those subtle whispers of assurance, the soft glow that illuminates the path of a healthy and enduring romance?

Are we so addicted to drama that we forget to appreciate harmony?

I can vividly remember the latest season of “Love Is Blind” and the dumpster fire it was. For one, I was turned off by all the drama and overall weird interactions between the cast. Maybe it’s just me, but I’d like to see more relationships unfolding, like the one Brett and Tiffany had in season 4. See, I love seeing people genuinely looking for lasting love, trying their best to help and reassure their significant other while navigating difficult situations together. In other words, I love green flags more than anything else.

Why we should notice green flags more.

While we all know more or less everything there is to know about red flags, rarely do we discuss green flags in romantic relationships. But what are green flags, and how can you spot them in your relationship? For the most part, green flags in a romantic relationship are the positive…

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Phoebe Kirke
The Secret Society

Feminist, activist, sister, but above all, hurt. Writing is my path to living life to the fullest.