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No Clue Who’s Into You? Don’t Sweat It, Most People Don’t

We’re very bad in knowing who’s attracted to us.

Photo by Samson Katt from Pexels.

We spend a disproportionate amount of time figuring out if someone is into us or not.

Unfortunately, most of this time is wasted.

Maybe it’s because we hope the target of our affection likes us just as much, clouding what might really…




Start writing, no matter what. The water does not flow until the faucet is turned on. ―Louis L’Amour

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Phoebe Kirke

Phoebe Kirke

Feminist, activist, sister, but above all, hurt. Writing is my path to living life to the fullest.

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