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Relationships Without Sexual Attraction Aren’t Meant To Last

Why sexual tension is crucial for a healthy relationship

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Remember when you saw your partner for the first time? What was the first thing you noticed? Was it the eyes, the hair, or the look? And how did it make you feel?

That first encounter was, in many ways, intriguing.




Start writing, no matter what. The water does not flow until the faucet is turned on. ―Louis L’Amour

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Phoebe Kirke

Phoebe Kirke

Feminist, activist, sister, but above all, hurt. Writing is my path to living life to the fullest.

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