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The Secret Society

We Don’t Fall in Love With Most of Our Crushes and That’s Okay

Some things are so much better when left a fantasy

Photo by Sam Manns on Unsplash

If I were to ask you who your first crush was, I bet you’d know immediately. And yet, did you also fall in love with your first crush? Did this sudden and unexpected attraction towards someone you barely know end with marriage?




Start writing, no matter what. The water does not flow until the faucet is turned on. ―Louis L’Amour

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Phoebe Kirke

Phoebe Kirke

Feminist, activist, sister, but above all, hurt. Writing is my path to living life to the fullest.

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