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The Secret Society

Why We Have Instant Attraction With Some People, But Not Others

The psychological reasons and factors that influence attraction.

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I was on the bus to work. Unsuspecting, lost in thought, and definitively stressed out — there he was. The way he looked at me with his piercing blue eyes made my head spin out of nowhere; there was an instant attraction.




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Phoebe Kirke

Phoebe Kirke

Feminist, activist, sister, but above all, hurt. Writing is my path to living life to the fullest.

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