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Are You an Introvert? Or Do You Simply Struggle to Resonate With Unsafe People?

At the end of my marriage, I saw a sex therapist.

Not as a last ditch attempt to save the relationship but in the interest of trying to understand my own libido — which is LIFE FORCE ENERGY — and to shift it out of dormancy into aliveness again.




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