The Shadow
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The Shadow

Being in a Secure Relationship

Recovering from unhealthy family and relationship patterns is a long road with potential pitfalls.

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It’s been a long journey figuring out why romantic relationships have been so difficult for me. I examined how my past informed these difficulties and what I can do to resolve these problems which had become a persistent and despairing issue in my…




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Jennifer L.

Jennifer L.

I write about my experience as a second generation Asian American, mental health, and female empowerment. Contact me at

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