4 Most Impactful Dating Advice

Be ready to get aligned

Durgesh Chandrawanshi
The Shortform
Jul 24, 2024

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№1 Marriage and relationship are not solely about love but mostly compatibility, common preferences, similar life goals, and aspirations. So stop idealizing a happy married life with someone you love and know nothing about.

№2 We aren’t attracted to a particular person but a specific type of person with whom we can resonate, so if you get rejected by someone, give yourself time and find a compatible person in the same league.

№3 Don’t date the person you consider too ideal, you'll start to expect too much from them and they will start to feel entitled to make decisions on your behalf as per their wish.

№4 Mutual attraction is the only thing that makes the relationship work; attraction from both sides is needed; if you date someone who doesn't want you, you’ll eventually get replaced.

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Durgesh Chandrawanshi
The Shortform

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