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Because I’m a Liar

How Far Will You Go To Avoid Personal Responsibility?

Something I’ve noticed lately is how far some people go to avoid saying, “I fucked up. I’m sorry.”

These people are masterful, experts at the art of making excuses. And, boy oh boy, are they some good excuses.

When it comes to these people, you go into conversations with them thinking, “I’m gonna call them out today,” and you walk away thinking you did something wrong.

It must take years to perfect this art of gaslighting. I find myself, a person who is not afraid of confrontation, avoiding these people at all costs.

Why? Because I know that I’ll walk away from conversations with them confused and unsure of why I confronted them in the first place.

How do you turn someone like this around?




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