It’s Not You. It’s Me.

Accepting that I am the problem can be daunting, but is necessary

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‘Is there a problem?’

‘No.’

But, there is a problem. I do not appreciate how you ignore me. Well, until you need me.

I recently read this article — If You Do These 10 Things, You’re the Problem in Your Relationship. It listed You go silent instead of talking about your feelings.

What if I am the problem after all? Because I do not talk about how you ignoring me pisses me off.

Being the problem may not mean being a bad person. It may just mean you are doing something wrong. Like being too good to a fault.

You should do these instead.

• Be honest about how your feelings are affecting your life
• Find a comfortable means of communication. And speak up.

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