What Is A sissy Manifesto?

Mishika R
The sissy Room
Published in
7 min readMar 16, 2024

Understanding what is meant a sissy manifesto and creating one for yourself.

A dictionary definition of a manifesto is “a public declaration of rules or aims”. Usually political parties use the term to declare the things they will be doing after coming into power.

These are rules which one sets for themselves and declares them openly, to be held accountable if they do not fulfill them.

For a sissy, a manifesto represents the values or the rules created by a sissy for themselves, which they agree to adhere to at all times to remain committed to their sissy desires. They also can declare these publicly to all, so that they can be held accountable by others from within the community.

Need For a Manifesto

Many sissies rely on an external dominant (master or mistress) to set the rules for them to obey and adhere to. Without these rules set, they tend to be naughty sissies who break out of their sissy nature time and often, or end up questioning their sissy nature, when they know deep down they are a sissy.

Setting a manifesto can help a sissy somewhat overcome these challenges. Setting a sissy manifesto for oneself is declaring your own rules and goals that you as a sissy abide to follow. This shows a sissy is committed to her sissyness and takes it seriously, while also re-enforces the sissy desires when you re-read them.

There have so many times for me personally, where I was undergoing Post Nut Shame (POS) after an orgasm, and then right away re-read my sissy manifesto and turned around and came back to my sissy desires instantly.

Publicly declaring your sissy manifesto, in a way, also makes you accountable to it in a way. Even if I don’t know the people whom I’ve shared it with, and just posted it publicly, in my mind, it creates this effect that I must stick to the rules as I’ve revealed them to people from my community. It gives me something to be accountable for as a sissy.

Difference From sissy Goals

A sissy manifesto is much different compared to the sissy goals you set for yourself. A Manifesto is not the things you want to accomplish or want to do someday, but rather they are the things you are currently doing to re-enforce your sissyness and will keep on doing unless things change.

While goals will help a sissy become the best version of themselves, a manifesto will help them re-enforce their sissy nature and stick to it. Goals are about creating a new self by introducing new changes, while a manifesto is about implementing the existing changes effectively so they become a habit.

It’s not about one being better over the other, both are useful and essential for sissy. Every sissy must have their Goals and Manifesto jotted down clearly and updated from time to time as well as easily available to see and review anytime needed.

Be Realistic

It is important to understand that a manifesto isn’t a goal, it isn’t something we aspire to do and achieve at a certain point in our lives, it is something we can do in the present and want to instill in our basic nature more.

Hence, it is very important for a sissy to set a realistic manifesto for themselves so that they can remain committed to them. Setting too hard rules will be difficult for a sissy to implement in real life and will affect her choices to remain committed to the sissy lifestyle, as well as cause regret and lead to adverse effects.

The manifesto must always be made considering what is possible for a sissy to do currently, considering their environment, their background, their society, their work and career etc, so it is symbiotic with their lives, no adverse to it. For example, adding something like “I will wear a dress everyday” might not be a realistic manifesto for a sissy who has a very male demanding daily job or a family to live with. It will just lead to the manifesto not holding value for the sissy as it was supposed to.

So it is important for the sissy a realistic manifesto which she will be able to remain committed to and follow properly, and is true to their conditions. Every sissy’s has different environmental conditions and thus every sissies manifesto will be different, and unique to themselves. So copying anyone else’s might not work for you, you have to create one for yourself on your own. Taking inspiration from someone’s manifesto is fine, but make sure to tweak it as per your own conditions.

A Manifesto Can Evolve

Once set, a manifesto is not set in stone. It can change and will evolve as a sissy evolves, but as long as it is there, it helps a sissy know how to act and behave. Periodic updating is not just encouraged, it is enforced! Every sissy must look back to their manifesto every 6 months to update it — remove the points that are not working for you and add more points that are working for you.

A manifesto is a constantly evolving thing and will change, so be okay with the possibility of updating it and removing what is not working for you!

Creating Your sissy Manifesto

Refer to the following rules and pointers while creating your own sissy Manifesto:

  1. The language you use for your sissy manifesto will always be affirming to your sissy nature and always in the present tense. For my sissy manifesto, I wanted to make sure I reaffirm that I am a sissy in every point so I added that as a precedence to my manifesto. You can choose to add this or replace it with something else or skip this entirely as per your choice, but the statement must always be in present tense.

Good Example: “I am a sissy and I am smooth from neck down always.”
Good Example: “I am feminine and I am smooth from neck down always.”
Good Example: “I am smooth from neck down always.”
All of the above statements are good and valid. The below examples are not okay:
Bad Example: “I will be smooth from neck down always”
Bad Example: “I will try to be smooth from neck down always”

2. Take inspiration from what you are currently doing as a sissy to reinforce your feminity, whether on/off or occasionally, and what all you can do at what times, and make your statement clearly. Remember, be realistic always and go by what you can practice.

Good Example: “I am a sissy and I keep my clitty locked in chastity majority of the times, exceptions being in gym, shower (for cleaning) and sometimes while sleeping.”
Bad Example: “I am a sissy and I will keep my clitty locked in chastity 24x7.”

Understand the practicality of this statement. Chastity 24x7 is something not feasible practically for most people, including sissies. So a statement like this will only cause a sissy more suffering and regret than the positive reinforcement we wish to create. For me, I find chastity especially cumbersome during my gym time and dangerous also (it case it breaks) and while sleeping as it sometimes keeps me awake due to discomfort. I also take it off during showers for a proper cleaning and hygiene reasons. So the above statement was more true to me than the below one.

3. It can and should involve not just the physical things, but can extended to posture and even mental points. Remember, feminity is not just from the physical but more from the mental. If your mind is feminine, your body will automatically become feminine. Every sissy should focus on feminizing their mind. So make sure your manifesto includes some points that cater to feminizing your mind also.

Example: “I am a sissy and I always talk to myself using my sissy name and she/her pronouns.”
Example: “I am a sissy and I consume content (books, podcasts, tv shows and moves) that feeds my femininity daily.”

4. Number of points doesn’t matter, their quality and implementation does. It’s okay if you have 5 points, its okay if you have 10 points and its okay if you have 20 points. Start someplace and start slow and progress overtime as you delve deeper into your sissy nature.

5. Decorate your sissy manifesto, make it pretty and pleasing to look at and print it out and frame it. Now keep it somewhere you can see it on a regular basis — on your bedside , work desk, bathroom sink etc, wherever you feel you can view and read it on a daily basis. You can also choose to make it into a wallpaper for you desktop or phone or use a widget on your phone to have random rules pop up any time.

6. You can also make a video of it, with the different rules coming one by one with a related image as a background, with some nice girly audio playing in the background. I call this a Mind Movie and have it on my phone and watch it the first thing every morning to reinforce my sissy nature.

7. Set a date, preferably a weekend 6 months from the date you created this Manifesto and add to your calendar as a reminder to remind you to revisit your manifesto to update it — add any new points you have or remove any points that aren’t working for you.

Conclusion

Once you have your own manifesto created and implemented, you will see a huge shift your sissy desires and nature as you find yourself working more diligently towards bettering your sissy self. You will also notice a decrease in the time of your Post Nut Shame (POS) as become the best feminine version of yourself.

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Mishika R
The sissy Room

Creative Writer ✍🏼 | Digital Artist 🎨 | Sexuality and Acceptance Coach 👩🏻‍🏫 | Proud Sissy 👸🏻 | Pansexual 🌈 | www.mishiness.com