Is It Better to Give Or Receive Kindness?

What question — when answered — can make for a nicer world

Bobbie O'Brien
E³ — Entertain Enlighten Empower
2 min readOct 16, 2023

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Photo by Emily Morter on Unsplash

Recently, Malky McEwan challenged invitees (and all new writers) to select, answer and submit 11 questions for his new publication: E³- Entertain Enlighten Empower.

The list of provided questions was long and varied from funny to serious: This makes me laugh to I still regret

Here’s the Q&A Template for those who are intrigued and for those who just want the opportunity to “sizzle” some brains:

E³ Q&A — Template

(Answer 11 questions + one of your own)

  1. Put the reader first.
  2. If you have nothing to say, don’t say it (delete those Qs).
  3. Sell yourself. Feel free to sizzle the reader’s optic nerves and set their brains on fire.

It’s all about the reader. And I confess as a reader and now a writer for E³, I am privileged to be among the inaugural group.

I feel lucky to have made the cut and that’s despite me neglecting to include a critical piece in my Q&A.

I forgot to add my question to the mix. An oversight I will rectify now:

“What kindness have you given or received lately?

I’m not a “sizzler” when I write. I’m more of a gentle saute or slow burn.

My hope is the reader and respondent use my question as a springboard to recall the kind acts we all witness daily, but never note.

What better way to counter global strife than by acknowledging kindness?

And my ultimate goal — the question might inspire us all to be a little more gentle and kind to others and to ourselves.

After all, onions are sweetest when slowly sautéd to a golden hue and not sizzled to a dark brown char.

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Bobbie O'Brien
E³ — Entertain Enlighten Empower

I’ve yet to write the perfect sentence. Yet a single word describes my life: BLESSED. A journalist over 40 years in public radio, newspapers, TV. Now, I write.