Unbridled Desire
Being passionate about life is a valuable trait to obtain. To seize life in abundance, with vigor and drive, devoted to obtaining the very best quality you can achieve out of a situation. Unbridled and fully driven about life and its potential.
Unbridled desire is not for unmotivated individuals or those who tend to find excuses not to excel in uncharted territories. This is no resting place for complacency. This is the juice we need to become our superpower. Almost equivalent to a drug and can become addictive. However, addictive traits do not have to be present when operating in the spirit and with the right motive.
This type of drive is a basic ingredient for successful individuals. Success can be whatever it is you are aiming to achieve or defined as your purpose (Oxford Dictionary).
A common theme I witness with individuals that offer successful insight is that they are accommodating, exhibiting the generosity and goodwill of a philanthropist. A larger trait exhibited with goodwill and personal growth is cultivating humility. I struggled in this area for a long time. Fighting with my colleagues about ego-driven nonsense, then harvesting resentments and not accepting my part in the issue. What I realized is, the value of humility takes practice. It takes applying physical application in order to bring about a cognitive change. This alters how we think which in return powers our hearts and pure motives.
Whatever is on you, gets in you, and what is in you, comes out of you — Sara Roberts
Here are some examples of humility and steps you can take to assure you are applying good leadership skills in your life:
- Admitting when you are wrong
- Complimenting others (especially peers or employees)
- Asking for help or acknowledging you don’t have the knowledge to support an answer to a question
- Practicing good ethics — All the time with honesty and compassion
- Always try and be of assistance and help others when you can
Humility is learning (ongoing action) to be our true selves. Operating within our passion and calling. Why are we put on this earth? It certainly isn’t to be miserable. We are called to serve and honor our communities. To cultivate relationships and enjoy our moments.
All psychotherapy frames consist of relearning to love and show ourselves compassion. They also require effort toward reshaping our thinking, from I can’t to I can. Sending loving-kindness to yourself. Being honest to the best of our ability, such as detailing our feelings and elaborating on the areas we feel defeated in, or the personal struggles we may have (i.e., family and other emotional issues that we all have).
Never should we limit our capabilities of what we can achieve. Do I accept desire or accept lack into my mental framework? Unbridled desire takes giving up your current success, for the next. It takes rigorous belief that this level of contentment is what success is all about. This was obtainable for me when I saw others excel in levels of achievement after coming from a similar place of despair.
Freedom is the ability to stand on your own two feet and experience gratitude for who you truly are. Having the ability to say “No” without experiencing guilt. Knowing you are being authentic and not something else that isn’t your true self. Good, bad, or indifferent… “This is who I am!” A piece of the puzzle. Worthy of love! Unbridled and ready to participate.
Any lifestyle seeking spiritual fulfillment demands freedom, goodwill, creative action, and personal growth. — James Kinnon
