The Trans Litmus Test: How Do You Know You’re A Woman?

I Do. And I Don’t Have To.

Bethany Beeler
The Transition Transmission
3 min readFeb 14, 2022

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Today, a coworker asked me if I had a spare tampon.

A milestone for a trans woman, eh? Not really something I’d been aiming for (though I will hereafter keep tampons in my purse to help out a sister). An affirmation, nonetheless.

But not a confirmation.

Being Who I Am

It’s been 4–½ years since I first realized I was trans, and, lately, I’ve been receiving all sorts of indications…

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Bethany Beeler
The Transition Transmission

Author of North Street Book Prize Finalist, _How to NOT Know You’re Trans_, and artist. Her work has been published in multiple publications.