Your Trans Marriage
Keep your expectations grounded and honest
When I began transitioning I would often find myself telling my wife that she didn’t need to feel sad, because I was still the same person. Three and a half years later, and now two days following our divorce, I can plainly see that was untrue. But the person I was lying to the most was myself.
I suppose I would have said anything to keep the life I had intact, and that was destined to include a full dose of self-delusion. I disassociated myself from the man I once pretended to be, and with each…