Your Trans Marriage

Keep your expectations grounded and honest

When I began transitioning I would often find myself telling my wife that she didn’t need to feel sad, because I was still the same person. Three and a half years later, and now two days following our divorce, I can plainly see that was untrue. But the person I was lying to the most was myself.

I suppose I would have said anything to keep the life I had intact, and that was destined to include a full dose of self-delusion. I disassociated myself from the man I once pretended to be, and with each…




The place to embrace the Triumphs and Tribulations of those who Transitioned and risked everything to live authentically.

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Kira Wertz

Kira Wertz

Pansexual, Polyamourous, Transgender Truck Driver, public speaker, activist, LGBTQ advocate, Jeeper and primary author at The Transition Transmission.

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