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The Oh-So Elusive Clarity

A few months ago, I got involved with someone I met in a group event setting.

It seemed like we were a great match: we were around the same age, went through divorce at around the same time, happened to be the same race, and even went to the same school many years ago.

We also had the same values, seemingly want similar things in a relationship, and can spend time lounging around with each…