Reframe The Way You View Haters/Enemies
One of the sure signs of success is the infamous “Hater”
Haters come in all ways, shapes and forms …
Co-workers…
Friends …
Ex business partners…
Someone who constantly goes out of their way to disagree with you…
Family members …
Competitors…
Previous clients …
Basically anyone with a bad case of “victim mentality”
Normally we are annoyed, sometimes scared and upset with our haters.
But I challenge you to view haters a little differently.
There is NO reason to be scared of a hater because the truth is, they are scared to DEATH of you.
They see your power.
They see your influence.
They see your tenacity.
They see that despite whatever challenges you may have, you’re not allowing anyone or anything to stop you from making your dreams come true.
Because of this, they are TRIGGERED!
How dare you show them what’s possible when you have a clear vision for the future and put in the work?
How dare you move forward when they are stuck?
You are supposed to stay small so that the hater can feel comfortable.
So that you guys can be on the same level.
But you’re coloring outside the lines and it’s driving them crazy!!
Ever notice that most haters will try to bring things up from your PAST?
This is because.. they can’t say anything about you NOW that you’re kicking ass and they are still allowing THIER past to CONTROL their PRESENT, therefor because they are still stuck, no one else is allowed to move forward.
You’ll often hear the phrase “ Let your haters be your motivators”, and to that I say. NO THANKS!
You are a HIGH ACHIEVER.
You do not give time and attention to situations or people who aren’t in your best interest.
You could care less about what people think about you or who doesn’t like you.
You are self motivated and do not need everyone’s approval over your life and business.
Your focus is on showing your tribe/community/clients/supporters that they are RIGHT rather than arguing or proving a hater WRONG.
Until the hater decides to accept responsibility for their reality, take back their power and change their situation, they will continue to hate on you or anyone else who they blame for their current situation.
Bottom line… no matter what you may have done or not done to this person the battle is not even about you, it’s about the HATER!!
You are now free to not even bat an eyelash at their shenanigans and continue being ABSOFREAKINGLUTELY AMAZING!!⭐️🦄✨
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