Brace Up : You’re actually on your Own
Okay,Let's take a step back to seven years ago, right after I finished secondary school. I was in the midst of self-discovery, exploring who I was and what I enjoyed. I had always loved reading, and through that, I uncovered a passion for writing. However, I wasn't sure what direction to take with it. Questions swirled in my mind: What should I write about? Should I create a story from scratch? Or perhaps write about my own experiences, documenting my journey through life? I wasn't the type to keep a diary, but I decided to start a notebook anyway, jotting down random thoughts—how my day went, my perspectives on life, and everything in between.
"I continued documenting my life daily, and it was deeply fulfilling. Growing up in a Christian home, I was introduced to Bible stories from a young age. I loved reading and listening to these stories, so I began writing summaries of them. It was more engaging for me and gave me a deeper understanding of these tales.
However, when I entered tertiary education, my writing took a backseat. Life got busy—I was caught up with classes, learning, and a multitude of other activities that pulled me away from writing. Aside from the occasional Instagram or TikTok caption, I hardly wrote anymore. But the passion for writing was still within me. Then, something happened—though that's a story for another day—that reignited my love for writing. This incident pushed me to pick up my pen once again, and I started writing once more."
Why did I stop writing?
I stopped paying attention to myself—no more self-reflection or evaluation.
I got lost in my daily routines, which didn’t make me feel any better or improve my well-being.
I stopped reading. Does that mean reading is tied to my writing? Not exactly, but it certainly gives me an edge. I once read a quote that said, “Reading is like breathing in, and writing is like breathing out.” For me, writing was about pouring out my heart—expressing things I couldn’t discuss with others. It was my escape from reality, and sometimes, I found solutions to whatever was on my mind.
That’s why I don’t agree with the school of thought that most writers are depressed. For me, writing was a source of healing and hope—both for myself and for others.
Why is periodic Self-evaluation important?
Even though I was passionate about writing, I eventually drifted away from it, losing sight of what I truly loved as life became more hectic. Writing was pushed aside. Self-reflection involves examining your actions, thoughts, and how others perceive you in order to improve your self-awareness and understand yourself more deeply. I had always doubted my writing—uncertain of what I was doing or why I was doing it—which made it easier to let go. But through the process of self-discovery and periodic self-reflection, I realized I had a hidden calling: helping others. Whether or not I was paid for it never mattered; I just loved making a difference. This journey of evaluation and reflection helped me overcome my doubts and regain the strength I had lost.
Finding Purpose?
Growing up, I was always deeply observant of the world around me. I paid close attention to people, listened carefully to their thoughts and opinions, and this naturally nurtured my love for writing and storytelling. I found joy in sharing my experiences, hoping my stories might inspire others to grow and become better versions of themselves. This realization eventually led me to pursue a career in the medical field, where helping people improve their health and live better lives became my focus.
