Mirrors of the Mind: Self-Esteem’s Role in Human Decision-Making

Luehning, Klaus V.
The VerifiedHuman™ Collective
2 min readJul 9, 2024

Self-esteem, our internal perception of our worth, plays a crucial role in shaping our life decisions.

The Nature of Self-Esteem:
Self-esteem is a curious insight into the value of one’s existence, critical assessment of one’s qualities, and determination of whether one is living a worthwhile life. It begins to form in early childhood and develops over time, gradually shifting from demonstrative to more socially pliable attitudes.

In healthy individuals, self-esteem often leads to the acquisition of valuable traits:
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Tolerance
> Patience
> Accommodation
> Collegiality
> Temperate compromising

For example, a child who receives consistent positive reinforcement may develop the confidence to voice opinions in class, leading to improved social skills and academic performance.

The Spectrum of Self-Esteem:
However, self-esteem exists on a spectrum. At the lower end, it can manifest as:
> A tenuous grasp of one’s capabilities
> Excessive need for external direction
> Avoidance of challenges and social participation

These negative manifestations can occur despite natural talents and mental prowess. A gifted artist with low self-esteem, for instance, might hesitate to showcase their work, limiting their potential for growth and recognition.

The Role of Self-Esteem in Decision Making:
Self-esteem significantly influences our decision-making processes. High self-esteem often correlates with:
> Courage in facing challenges
> Willingness to make sacrifices for long-term goals
> Effective application of skills to solve problems

> Willingness to make sacrifices for long-term goals

> Effective application of skills to solve problems

Consider a professional weighing a career change. Those with healthy self-esteem might view it as an opportunity for growth, while those with low self-esteem might fear failure and stick with an unfulfilling but safe option.

Self-Esteem and Artificial Intelligence:
As AI becomes more prevalent in decision-making processes, we face new challenges. Based on past data and patterns, AI algorithms lack the nuanced self-reflection humans bring to decisions. While AI can process vast amounts of information, it cannot replicate the complex interplay between self-esteem and decision-making that characterizes human choices.

An AI might recommend a career path based solely on skills and market demand without considering an individual’s sense of self-worth or personal fulfillment. This highlights the ongoing importance of human judgment, especially in decisions that significantly impact our lives.

As we face an increasingly AI-influenced world, understanding and caring for our self-esteem is even more critical. By recognizing the unique value that human self-perception brings to decision-making, we can balance AI’s capabilities with honoring the irreplaceable human element in our choices. The challenge moving forward will be to utilize the power of AI while successfully preserving the essential role of self-esteem in shaping our individual and collective futures.

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Luehning, Klaus V.
The VerifiedHuman™ Collective

Immigrant from Germany, Pizza maker in Brooklyn, Marine Engineer, Associate Professor, Executive Chef and retired Senior Addiction Counselor, Essayist.