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A Narcissist Made Me Selfish

And I hated him for it

Photo by WARLEY VENANCIO from Pexels

I’m on the phone with my brother. It’s the second or maybe the third year of my divorce and things are continuing to unravel. My husband, a diagnosed narcissist is a brutalizing bully.

“Every time you solve a problem,” he says. “A new one arises.”

It’s one step forward two steps back.




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Colleen Sheehy Orme

Colleen Sheehy Orme

National Relationship Columnist, Journalist & Former Business Columnist. I cover love, life, & relationships— #WomanResurrected

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