A Relationship With A Narcissist Will Always Be One-Sided

They will never try to see things from your point of view

Carrie Wynn
Oct 16, 2020 · 4 min read

It’s going to look completely one-sided and here are the reasons why.

They feel entitled and their ego will take center stage

You will need to constantly keep up with the Narcissist’s demands in order to keep them somewhat satisfied.

They will never try to see things from your point of view

A healthy relationship requires communication and empathy for each other’s feelings.

They aren’t dating for love

When validation and attention are at the forefront of someone’s mind there isn’t room for vulnerability and intimacy.

They will take and take until you are completely depleted

Let’s imagine for a moment that you accept that you will have to live with all of the behaviors I mentioned previously, and you proceed to try to make a relationship with a Narcissist work.

You cannot be doing all of the work in any relationship

It doesn’t matter if it’s with a Narcissist, one person cannot be expected to carry the entire weight of their relationship on their shoulders.

You deserve to be in a relationship that involves two people putting forth the effort to make it work.

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Carrie Wynn

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❦ Writer & Relationship Consultant on narcissism, overcoming abuse & trauma, and self-love. Contact me @ Blog: carriewynn.com Instagram: carrie_wynnmusings

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We are a community of strong women who share our personal stories about how we’ve survived and thrived in our lives. We share our messages to heal and help others learn from our experiences

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❦ Writer & Relationship Consultant on narcissism, overcoming abuse & trauma, and self-love. Contact me @ Blog: carriewynn.com Instagram: carrie_wynnmusings

The Virago

We are a community of strong women who share our personal stories about how we’ve survived and thrived in our lives. We share our messages to heal and help others learn from our experiences

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