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“Before They Bite, They Bark. Before They Hit You, They Hit Near You”

How “Maid” on Netflix contains an important truth about domestic abuse

“Maid” — Netflix 2021. Image source:

The first time I left my first husband, I didn’t go very far at all. I didn’t go for very long, either. I had no money and also, I didn’t really want to go. I was nineteen years old, my baby was one year old, and I’d shaped my…




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