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Do You Dress for Men or Women?

Either mindset can be used against women

Photo by Tamara Bellis on Unsplash.

Personal Experience

I dress more carefully for men more than I do for women, but not for the reasons you might imagine. Often, it’s not about trying to impress the opposite gender (not that there’s inherently anything wrong with that). No, I’ve just realized that I often dress nicer for friend dates with…




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Kayla Vokolek

Kayla Vokolek

Creative writing grad located in LA

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